Now I am a mum I have learnt…

Hey readers,

Isn’t parenthood wonderful, since being a mum I have learnt so much. I know it is cheesy, but it so does change you as a person. Let me inlight you with the things I have learnt from being a mum.

Since being a mum I have been constantly thinking I am so tired and the fact there is nothing more appealing than spending a whole day in bed, could you imagine?!

Motherhood changes you for the better, you grown and learn skills. For example patience and how to speak more simpler, which are brilliant skills to master in my eyes.

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Sadly, you slowly learn the hard lesson that having children is expensive. This particularly came more apparent when my eldest started school.

Kids are noise and your poor little ears will be battered with the ongoing squabbling.

The washing basket will never be empty again and you take so much pleasure in completing washing

If you get to sleep till 8am you are privileged. I am also going to say that when you do have the lucky chance to sleep in, you will soon be greeted with sods law knocking on your door as you are so internally trained to wake up so early, you mind has suddenly thought there is some serious emergency.

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Guilt is there 24/7 and you doubt everything, no matter what anyone says you constantly question the decisions you make.

You will inevitably turn into your mother, there is no escaping – whether it be moaning that you are constantly tired or you got adopt them catchphrases such as, one more time, wait until your dad gets home.

No matter how many books you read, there is no one perfect answer. Changes are things change and popular ways of parent constantly shift. I learnt this when I had two children.


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My Favourite quotes

Hey readers,


Have you noticed how much people love a good old quote on social media and I am one of them people. So, here are my top five quotes to help me in life.



This has got to be my favourite quote as it is positive and all geared to self acelpting the the situation but also making the best of that situation. Taking the good and get rid of the negativity.




I know this is so Instagramable but so true, some of the best people ‘fake it’ until they get to the desired place that they want to be at. Also, a good point to add is not all you seen on the surface is the full story, which ironically again is pretty much most of Instagram ;)!



Sometimes when we try to help people it is simply not enough. There is only so much you can do and accepting that fact can help you move on. Because let’s face it the only control we have is ourselves. All we can do is be there for them and when the individual is ready then they will do it. I for one have been on both sides and can tell you it is so true.


I be honest I have spend many a time just sitting here doubting things and going through all the ‘what ifs’. But sometimes you just have to go forth and see what happens.  You have to start somewhere and no one is perfect so stop dwelling on the ideals and just go forth and conquer.


Totally agree with you Albert here! The best lessons or learning has been through mistakes. Past history has taught us that somethings have happened through stumbling on the product that was intentionally used for something else, such as penicilian.

Cheers for reading X