Date ideas

Hey readers,

As a parent it can be hard fitting in time alone with your partner, as time is so precious but I think it is important to make some time when you can to do something together as a couple. Here are my top five things to do on a date night.

1) I suppose the most simplest thing you can do is watch a film with popcorn and you don’t have to live the home. I always find good is being mindful and turning off the old technology.

2) Something that me and the other half do now that my eldest is at school and the other one is at nursery is going for a breakfast at a cafe.  it is refreshing and a tad bizarre but find it really pleasant to do something different rather than the normal discussion over who is doing the washing.

3) I know this might not be to everyone’s taste, though this does float my boat and that is playing a board game. I love exploding kittens and Monopoly to name some. It is great to get competitive and it is great lighthearted aware to spend an even with your hubby.

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4) This slightly unusual with the next suggestion being baking, however in my experience if it something that myself and hubby enjoy. I feel it is a way to relax and make a creation together in the kitchen.

5) If that doesn’t tickle your pickle then going outdoors for a walk is a lovely way to spend time together. plus. it doesn’t got the world and it gives you a chance bye of scenery which is always a winner in my book.

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Cheers for reading X

 

 

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Blog Therapy 

Hey readers,

Some days are really crap, you wonder how you are going to get through them especially when it is only 9:30 on the morning.

I am so tearful because I have reduced one set of medication. I know it is only a side effect and will be worth the pain in the long run. But right now it is a struggle especially when I am so needed during the summer holiday.

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I am not very good when people demand me for long periods of time.  For me being autistic it is mentally draining and a real battle. I need to switch off and sometimes I just need escape to my bedroom for some peace for five.

I feel a bit suffocated as well being in a flat and the weather being rubbish. I just haven’t got the motivation to anything when I am so tired.

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I feel so guilty for feeling tired when I should be on the ball but sometimes I question My ability to parent such as today. I know this is just short lived and because I am frustrated, that being said I have to battle with this thoughts.

I feel pulled into two ways to right my personal feelings as one side of me thinks I am being silly. The other side feels it is cathartic and may help someone.

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It is amazing how powerful words on and just writing down your thoughts can really help even if there is no solution. It is a bit like therapy and that is one of the reasons why I love to blog. As in real life I am rubbish at expressing myself to others. Words seem to get mangled up and I stutter and shut down. Again this is influenced by my autism.

So, that is why I turn to my blog as a place of comfort and release of emotions. I don’t feel judged and it is a place where I can freely right without having to worry about all the other social aspects involved when speaking verbally.

Cheers for reading X

Autistic Feet

Hey readers,

My feet hurt today as a result of over using them yesterday. I know so what?! Here is the think why I am talking about my feet is the fact I am autistic you see and my feet posture is not very good. I have always had problems with standing and the way I coordinate my feet.

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I am so clumsy as well when I walk, I am guaranteed to trip up even if there is nothing there. The amount of bashing my toes into stuff and cursing under my breathe is unreal. My husband affectionately finds it funny.

I also shuffle my feet, especially when I am stressed. I am constantly getting told stop shuffling your feet like I am some kind of child.

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You don’t realise how hard it is to put one foot in front of the other. It can be really challenging. I never really thought about my physical problems when I was younger and now as an autistic adult I am still learning.

It is my arms I struggle with – not really knowing what to do with them when I walk, I find them painful and just frustrating. It is like I have to train my mind to swing my arms when I walk. It is so difficult as I am rubbish at doing two tasks at the same time.

One of the major problems that I struggle with as an autistic person is using my spacial awareness skills and navigating around objects and people. I am not good at forward planning especially in a busy place where I am over stimulated with the sensory information. Sometimes, I get so overwhelmed that I need to sit down and take a moment to take a break because of how mentally exhausting it is.

If I don’t think about my walking and focus on it, I really struggle with bumping into things or trip up.

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We as a human are meant to learn this skill at an early age and it to be developed. Therefore not having to think about it as it is a long term in implicit memory. It is wired in the brain so you don’t have to think about it, it is second nature.  Being an autistic person we miss out on this opportunity and I do wonder before language evolved how many humans died due to lack of ‘natural’ skills due to having a different way of thinking.

So, therefore if you do wonder why do us autistic people get SO tired this is a little insight, because we have to constantly work our asses of and remembering all these ‘natural’ rules that people take for granted.

Cheers for reading X

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It’s a Bing thing!

Hey readers,

Today I bring you my thoughts when watching Bing, because basically I have watched an episode today and I have had enough, I need my place to vent my frustrations, so here goes.

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Why is Bing always having a strop off? Seriously he is such a moany little sod, all the time. He must give his carer/parent a headache.

I think Bing needs to learn the art of No. He is such a little brat, so selfish every single time. If there is one crucial lesson that Bing needs to learn then it is to stop being so self-centred and share.

I think Flop is too soft and he should just quit being all nicey and following him around all day. I mean come on no parent surely has that much patience all day long with wingy Bingy. What message is that saying anyway to a child that if you moan you will get away with it? The thing is Bing needs some discipline. The first port of call would be to quit calling it a Bing thing, more Flop thing and if you don’t like it you know where you can stick it!

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I think Flop has some insecurities with the amount of 1-2-1 time, does he ever give Bing any space.

Why does Flop always say, ‘Aieechee!’ when Bing sneezes, what is that all about? Seems a bit odd to me.

What relationship is Flop anyway towards Bing,  is he a carer a parent and if he is a parent then pretty random considering flop is not any kind of animal, more sack like?

Why does every programme have to revolve around some moral. I believe that the best cartons are just fun, I can’t cope with any more American spin off programmes.  I wish Bing would have a change the format, it is so boring that I can predict what happens.

Why does Pando have a nappy on and no trousers on, surely this is not right, come on woman sort yourself out. You can not be like that 24/7.

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Cheers for reading X

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Home decor wish list!

Hey readers,

Today I bring you a home decor wish list of all the loveliness of all things home decor related from the Uncommon Goods website.

A little bit about the company itself – Uncommon Goods was founded in 1999 and headquartered in Brooklyn, New York, Uncommon Goods is a privately-owned retailer that endeavors to feature unique jewelry, designer décor, tabletop items, and handcrafted gifts created in harmony with the environment without harm to animals or people. So that is why you should definitely check out on this page wide range of home decor to chose from.

Uncommon Goods has been rewarded for outstanding customer service from BizRate every year since 2007. In 2015, Uncommon Goods achieved the BizRate Platinum Circle of Excellence award.

the website appeals to me greatly as it has amazing unique and quirky ideas that you don’t really find on your high street. If your looking for something a little bit different then Uncommon Goods is the place to go.

I have hand picked six items that I love in the home decor range and if I had the money/older children then these are the types of products that I would definitely go for.

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Firstly, how amazing is this first item, it is cool display of the toilet paper and fantastic storage, which in a small space is such fab idea.

I have never seen anything like this next item which is a sea swirl candle dome (2). It is absolutely stunning and really great a stunning ambience when your in need of time to relax.

I know my husband and children would love this kinetic gear holder (3). It is so fun to bring a playful element into your home.

The deep sea sand art (4) is such a calming feel to it and would bright an element of nature in your home decor. I could image me just sitting there watching the sand transform into different patterns.

How quirky and humours is this doormat (5), it is going to make any visitor that calls at your door to smile . Check out more home decor items on this page – http://www.uncommongoods.com/home-garden/home-decor/mats-rugs.

One of the factors what influences me in choosing an item for the home is it being environmentally friendly. Well look no further then this wonderful idea and that this recycled glass rainbow wind-chime (6). It such a clever way to recycle items that may end up wasted. There are other similar stuff that you can find if you visit at Uncommon Goods.

Cheers for reading X

This is a collaborative post with Uncommon Goods.

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