I’m fat

Hey readers

Today I feel miserable and fat and ugly and yuk. So I wrote down a list of why I am fat. It makes miserable and why i should try and stick to a bloody diet!

1. I’m fat because I am lazy.

2. I’m fat because I am depressed.

3. I love chocolate way too much.

4. I feel safe.

5. Motivation has dwindled and can you please deliver it back to me.

6. I have no self control.

7. Food is my comfort, good or bad I’m there baby!

8. Because salad and water are boring.

9. Because I am tired being woken up by ill children that I need a sugar rush then be a grumpy bitch.

10. Because I use self lpve as an excuse for not watching what I eat.

11. I’m fat as my clothes don’t fit and don’t have the funds to update my clothes.

12. I’m fat because I have rolls.

13. I’m fat because my thighs rub together.

14. I’m fat because I still have a baby from two years ago, haha!

15. I’m fat because I am deluded until see the photos and realise I’m not a slim mum.


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67 thoughts on “I’m fat

  1. I disagree with most of these. Flip all the sentences and it makes more sentence. My clothes don’t fit because I’m fat I’m depressed because I’m fat. I know all these feelings, I have them myself often. But really we are fat, because we accept/allow ourselves to be. And number two, because it feels safe. I know this exactly. Massive hugs sweetie and I hope tomorrow is a brighter day xx

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  2. I am blaming my excessive levels of chocolate consumption on breastfeeding. I have always been slim but I am definitely beginning to notice that I am less slim than before. That drink in the picture looks great though! #effitfriday

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  3. Ah bless you been there. I’m currently a stone over weight with no jeans that fit!!! Just joined slimming world to try to halt the weight gain. Why does everything nice have so many calories? #justanotherlinky lifeinthemumslane

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  4. Snap!! I have put on quite a bit of weight over the last 2 years and I am now trying to lose a few pounds and it’s so hard because I really love my food #KCACOLS

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  5. Mother knows exactly how you feel. she always feels fat but despises fruit and loves red wine and chocolate. I don’t care what size she is, I just love her anyway, and I believe that’s how all children feel πŸ˜‰ x #KCACOLS

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  6. Aww so brave to write the list – the first step in motivation – hoorah to you! Baby steps is what I say – little by little – well done! But we all have those vices and laziness at times – life takes over and so hard to be disciplined – in ore of your list though #KCACOL

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  7. I’m fat because who wants a tiny portion of food? I am actually giving weight loss another ‘go’ starting with an extra little workout each day and gradually making them longer, as well as a few shakes in the morning as I always skip breakfast and I shouldn’t. #kcacols

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  8. Oh this made me feel really sad. I have battled with anorexia my whole adult life and the F word is banned in our house as a result. I hate to think that others feel fat simply because their bodies don’t conform to the stereotypical supermodels we see flaunted across social media. You are beautiful, and should be proud of your body as you have grown a baby and given birth, and our bodies will never be the same. Yes we should be healthy and active but we should also love the bodies that we have, they are amazing. xx #justanotherlinky

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    1. I understand I have also battled with bulimia in the past. It is huge step to come. You are so right on everything, Sometimes though you just need to get things off your chest even at the time be absurd it helps as a way to move forward. X

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      1. Absolutely, I find writing it all down so therapeutic and it also helps to realise just how negative our thought patterns have become. Keep going, you’re doing great! Xx

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  9. Aww babe, we all have these days and its tough battle. I went from loosing lots of my baby weight whilst breastfeeding…even though i was eating like a trucker and lots of cakes. Thanks for sharing and just remember the “all about the base song” #KCACOLS

    Yeah, it’s pretty clear, I ain’t no size two
    But I can shake it, shake it, like I’m supposed to do
    ‘Cause I got that boom boom that all the boys chase
    And all the right junk in all the right places

    I see the magazine workin’ that Photoshop
    We know that shit ain’t real, come on now, make it stop
    If you got beauty, beauty, just raise ’em up
    ‘Cause every inch of you is perfect from the bottom to the top

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  10. I can identify with this, since Jan 2015 I’ve been doing slimming world, lost two stone, plus a stone back on, desperately trying to get to target weigh before hols at end of July but willpower is shite. I’m going back to SW tomorrow to face a huge gain and hopefully it’ll shock me into sorting it out! chin up. You’re not alone #Kcacols

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  11. Oh yes, I think I’ve been comfort eating for the past two years… it’s not good! But remember it’s all about what’s on the inside that counts (that’s about 3 bars of chocolate and 2 packets of crisps and some red wine for me at the moment πŸ˜‰ #KCACOLS


  12. Wine and chocolate and microwave meals are my downfall. Stress is the only thing that keeps me vaguely slim. A recipe for an early death…
    Chin up and enjoy the chocolate. #KCACOLS

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  13. Definitely have to add wine to the list (like many others I see!), and I reckon I’d have more motivation if my days were less stressful and I wasn’t so bloody tired all the time! #KCACOLS

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  14. Ah hun, don’t be so hard on yourself please. I think that a lot of women feel like this, especially when you’ve had little sleep with little ones, or no time to eat properly because of little ones, or on the go constantly because of little ones. Life is hard, which can make us turn to the quickest food on offer. I’m so guilty of eating chocolate and cake (nearly every day) and hardly ever eat a salad! Keep smiling, it’s whats inside that counts. Thanks so much for linking up at #KCACOLS. Hope you come back again next Sunday. Claire x

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  15. You know, I just think motherhood is really hard and we find things we draw comfort from and immerse ourselves in them. I don’t eat at all when I’m stressed and I’ve made myself really ill with this in the past. It’s just so hard to take control of your diet, for example, when so many other things are out of your control too. But I’m sure you’re doing an awesome job as a mother and I hope you take comfort and pride in that, even on the shitty days. #KCACOLS

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  16. It is so hard to take good care of yourself once you have children, and needing to eat something nice because you are knackered is a very common problem, I’m sure. Sorry you are/were feeling like this. It is bloody hard to accept when your body doesn’t look the same as it used to before you had children, and I understand only too well the feeling that your clothes don’t fit. I know that I personally didn’t want to buy new clothes that did fit as it feels like I am accepting the fact that I am not as slim as I used to be… but I have bought a few bits recently, and now I am wearing some clothes that fir properly I know I look a million times better, if still a bit roll-ish in places πŸ˜‰
    x Alice

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  17. Gah, the chocolate. I’m so addicted-it’s like I can’t just walk past it! If a sugar free, dairy free, all-things-bad free, chocolate existed that was JUST AS GOOD as regular chocolate, I think a whole lot of us ladies would lose some weight :p

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