Autism is hard at times to manage and I feel crap recently because I seem to be having frequently meltdowns due to added pressure socially. Plus additional important information I need process and adapt to new changes. So I have tried new ways to incorporate relation techniques into my daily life to help make me relax a bit more.
I know asperger affects me in a way where I like doing physical hand movement type things as oppose to say thinking/meditating type things. I find some sensory activities can cause stress but others can create relaxation for me and stop me to obsessively checking of thinking (as I also have OCD).
1) Firstly I absolutely love colouring. I have found it really helpful in giving me something to focus on and just being in the moment without constantly having several thoughts rushing through my head. It helps make me more relaxed so I can face challenges better too.
2) Planning something whether be a day out or activity with the kiddos I get pleasure from. Especially when it goes smoothly. I find it detracts me away from stress as again I focus on the here and now without worrying about things that I don’t necessary need too.
3) Personally for me there is something amazing about putting your head on a cold pillow. Maybe because going into my bedroom (which is not often a lot cooler then other places in my home) can calm me down. I have several trips throughout thr day to my room for ‘timeout’. I found my tempatures gets really hot when I’m anxious and faffing therefore feeling something cool can soothe me.
4) I have social anxiety, I do go our now but I tend to feel very anxious and on edge. So when I am using public transport I use a stress ball to help relax me when I get overwhelmed. It distracts me and I get get rid of all that pend up energy and frustration.
5) This sounds werid when writing this down but brushing my hair helps relieve stress and I love the feeling after.
I know a lot of this stuff is hands on or sensory element but I am not one for sitting still I struggle sitting at the Dinner table for five minutes.
Cheers for reading X