I have lived with depression for years, though some days are better then others but it is hard to live with. There is always that one person who makes a snap judgement when really they are quite ignorant and have no idea of what a battle it is to live with depression. Here is my top ten misconceptions about depression that I have meet over the years.
- A golden oldie, all you need to do is snap right out of it. yeah, if it was that simple to just click my fingers and it the depression would disappear. At my darkest episode I was healthy, eating well, exercising a lot and going out but I still felt shit. I did everything to make these dreading feeling and fear go away with no avail.
- Drugs don’t work, well actually that may be so and it may be down to thoughts but then thoughts are in the mind. Drugs have worked successfully for some people including myself and I have seen evidence of it impacitng my quality of life. It does not earse everything but it reduces the immediate effects and helps lift you up to help you think more clearly and logically.
- Depreession is attention seeking, maybe so for some people but when I had depression in the begining I was ashamed and didn’t tell anyone and hid away in my deep dark world behind closed doors.
- Depression means your weak, far from it as you are living will this illness and having to deal with all the extra work it brings. It is very trying and you really lose your motivation to just do anything. Getting through it is pure hard work more then anyone would know.
- Depression is the same as sadness, wrong sadness is short lived with feelings of low. Compare that to depression which sucks all your energy, self destructive at times suicidal battle for long periods all day and night is a hell of a different story.
- Depression is a result of stressful events, well that can be the case in some situations as we can’t rule out the environmental factors. But you have to hear in mind that hormones, brain activity and genes also play a role in depression.
- It’s not really an illness, there has been evidence showning differences between areas of the brain that have less activity in contrast with brains of non-depressives.
- It’s all in the mind, sometimes yes but like point 6 there many factors that can not be ruled at as well when debating about where depression comes from.
- Talking about it only makes it worse, yes it can stir up bad emotions but it can help some people talk about feelings can help bring stuff to the surface and work through them emotions attached to issues. What you have to bear in mind is we are all different and what works for one does not neceesarily work for another.
- You don’t have depression if you are happy, well I disagree as I can have spikes up and down and all over the place. Sometimes I don’t know whether I am coming or going.
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